How to communicate well in Marriage

 How to communicate well in Marriage

1.Talk or Listen to your partners heart

Purpose not to get only the words your soul mate speaks but discern their meaning. You will not feel controlled when you understand his heart.Emphathy is alive when you discern the heart of your beloved.

2.Look for creative ways to communicate

If words fail ,look for other ways to have you talk &understand each other's feelings. For instance you can use colors to indicate different moods. If you are happy you can express using red.If you are unhappy you can use grey.

3.Dont provoke your spouse

Some partners are masters in evoking anger where it's unnecessary causing the house to be very cold. Don't be the one who fans the embers of anger.Be the peacemaker of your home.

4.Always be Polite

Choose your words in a wise manner in that you can be angry but kind. Rudeness shouldn't define your language as it breaks rather than build marriage.

5.Pray God to give you a tongue of wisdom

God is generous to give you what you ask. If you need choice words to talk to your spouse let the Lord provide. 


David&Winnie are marriage therapists&counsellors with experience that spans for many years.

If you have any questions,suggestions or you want to book an appointment write to:blessedlifecoach21@gmail.com

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